Tuesday, November 22, 2011

New boy friend need some advice and help?

okay so my boy friend and i have been dating for like a couple weeks now. we are both 14 im on 8th grade and he is a freshman at a different school.(and please don't tell me im to young we ain't gunna have sex or anything!) but anyways the only time we get to see each other is at church.But we dont know how else to see eachother because neither one of us can drive yet :/ and yes we have kissed even though it was my first and not his. but i need alot of help cuz he is my first REAL boy friend. but here are some of my questions.





1. how can i see him


2.how do i like idk make out with him or somthing


3.hes really romantic what are some things romantic i can do


4.what should i talk to him about


5.how do i keep him intrested(not having sex or anything)


6.what lil things do guys like for girls to do(again no sex)


7.what things should i get him for his birthday,christmas,ext.





any advice or answers would be gratly appriciated, im not to young i am ready for a relationship and i really like him i just dont know what to do please help :(New boy friend need some advice and help?
1. Invite him to whatever your family is doing. He can invite you to things his family is doing. Or both of your families can get together and do things. This really is fun. I love doing things with my husband's family(well, some of them. Some of his family is into booze and drugs.), and he loves doing things with mine(all of them).


2. Don't go there. Making out often leads to sex, and there comes a point where you may not be able to stop yourself. You aren't ready for the consequences of such behavior.


3. Be yourself.


4. Whatever comes to mind.


5. You shouldn't have to work at keeping him interested. He's dating you for you. As long as you are yourself, that alone should keep him interested. If you do, then this isn't a good match.


6. Pay attention to them. Hang out. Guys aren't into that mushy stuff.


7. Get him things he likes. Like say he likes a certain singer. If that singer has a new CD or whatever out around the time of his birthday, holiday, etc. get it for him.New boy friend need some advice and help?
Don't rush things, it is great how you feel about the no sex stuff! If you are really interested in this boy, have you told your parents? Maybe you guys could go to the movies with a group of friends(have you parents drop you off or chaperon) Invite him over for video games or something. Romantic stuff... have a picnic, go for ice-cream, hang out at the park swings. Do kid stuff, I know it is a stupid answer but that is really where you can have fun together and not be so serious or think things need to move super fast. As you know you are young (in years) and you have plenty of time to get to know eachother. Good gifts... find out what he likes to do... video games, read, draw, build things, you can get lots of different things but Gift certificates then maybe going shopping for the item he wants together. Hope thats helps
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