Tuesday, November 22, 2011

New to sex, need some advice please?

Me and my boyfriend lost our virginity together, so we are both new to sex. We've had sex 8 times now, but each time has only lasted about 2 minutes since he hasn't learned to control himself. The sex is good but something just doesn't seem right? Its seems like no matter what position were in we just can't seem to get him to go in all the way or something? Then also, when were ';moving'; it's not like an in and out motion it's more like a short movement where he's completely inside of me the whole time but just barely moving in and out. This doesn't seem right but it just doesn't seem to work the other way. Sorry if i'm not explaining myself well but I don't really know how to explain it. Like I said, the sex still feels good but its not amazing and something doesn't seem right. So could anyone give me any tips or advice. Maybe some positions that are good for beginners and will help us in our situation? Any advice is great thanks.New to sex, need some advice please?
You can try on top ( cow girl style) as this will allow you control. You can try dogie style . As for getting him to last longer try fore play till he shoots than have


intercourse after getting him hard again.


I love oral sex to start for both of you then you are prime and he not in a rush to shoot.New to sex, need some advice please?
well first off you both are new. he will take time to control himself or he might just be a minute man for life. if he does control himself doggy would be good but he stays inside cause if he comes out and in it will be to much for him and he will ***. you might want to try being on top so you can control the motion and amount you take in and let out. if that doesnt work then you could try numbing creme from a novelty shop to take away his sensation.
don't worry this is just normal, or atleast it's fine (everyone is differnt). but i would say that you should go on top and make sure you do have a condom on.... good idea. but he may not be ';packing '; down there so it might take a couple of more trie before you to understand the positions!!!
If he's shooting his load to early take this as a compliment and remember he's a beginner:)....But a condom would help slow him down and to get it in good make sure your wet enough or its harder to get it in all the way and being ontop can help but your best bet is to have patience with each other:)
Its always this ways for beginners. Just start with you on your back and him and top and get a good rhythm. I remember going through this... haha Start slow and try to pick up the pace once the rhythm gets better.





Still feels good either way
he probably hasnt poped ur cherry complete meaning he hasnt taken ur virginity all the way so u just sholud just try practicing to do it in and out till u feel more comfortable
get on top of him.


kiss him or something...in other words distract him so he wont think about u guys being in the middle of sex.
Practice makes perfect. Tell him to go slower and give longer strokes if that's what you like.
you should go on top, so that way you can have more control of how it goes!
try being on top


if you want him to not shoot off early try distracting him by doing something else like kissing

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