Thursday, July 29, 2010

Advice Please ..Starting at a new college?

I'm leaving behind all my mates from school, and I get dead nervous about meeting new people what should I do?Advice Please ..Starting at a new college?
Be friendly, and confident, but not arrogant! Try and talk to as many as people as you can. If you talk to one person, you will feel like just clinging on to that one person, but DONT! talk to as MANY people as possible, because if you just cling onto one, it will be hard to talk to others later on through college if you and that person have a falling out, or you realise you really have nothing in common and they get on your nerves!! All in all, try and be yourself, which is easier said than done in nervous situations, but I think overall, just be friendly and talk to as many people as you can, and then you will see which people you actualy like, and who likes you etc. Hope that wasnt too confusing or patronising!!!


P.S I have changed schools plenty of times, and when I moved to a different school for sixth form (so college like you), this one girl clinged on to me so bad, and because I was nervous and it was known to be a stuck up school, I was happy she did, and I ended up not knowing anybody else, and that girl annoyed the hell outta me!!!


Good luck with it all, you will be fine!!!!!! x x x x x xAdvice Please ..Starting at a new college?
Be yourself. when there are things to do you do them, don't go off in a corner. everyone else there or at least 90% of them are in the same situation. say Hi, that's it makes a great ice breaker. Make friends with all who say hi to you. You'll do just fine
Just be yourself and enjoy the experience,i'm sure you'l discover that your not the only person in this situation so it'l probably be very easy to make new friends. this is going to be one of the best experiences of your life so just remember not to over-think it and have a great time! you can still have all your old friends but make lots of new ones too! enjoy! x
Quite simply, be yourself. If you are yourself and friendly people will talk to you and you'll get a new group of friends too. Also, if you have to work in a group with people then introduce yourself and get them to tell you who you are too.
hun thats always the case when meeting new people i was the same but once u get used to the place u will feel compfy just be urself and u should be fine u will make friends in no time

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