Wednesday, July 28, 2010

New to the dating scene, need some advice!?

I am fairly new to the dating scene and finally have had the courage to ask a girl out. I recently met this girl at the mall and asked her to dinner. She said yes, and we went out the following night. I feel the date went really well. We surprisingly had a lot of things in common. This girl seems really nice and I would like to see her again. Now, here is my concern: I told her that I had a really good time and that we should do it again sometime. She responded by ';yes we definetly should';. She also stated ';I'll definetly be in touch';. Now how do you think I should take that? Is that her being interested still or is that her saying.......eeeehhhhhh maybe.? It's been two days since we went out and I haven't heard from her. Should I be concerned at all? I don't want to call/text her and seem overly interested. (even though I am) Any suggestions anyone?New to the dating scene, need some advice!?
'Definately be in touch' sounds like she will be doing just that. A nice girl would not say something like that and not see it through. It seems like she is feeling exactly the same way as you. She knows that by calling the next day, she may come across as desperate and would certainly not want to make that impression. She sounds very nice, just give her a couple more days. Best of luck!New to the dating scene, need some advice!?
some girls are old fashioned and wait for the guy to call . a couple of days is a good time to wait and not show your too eager . give her a call and DO NOT TEXT HER as she will think that you don`t like her enough to talk personally . show your interest by making plans to her liking from all the things you spoke about on the first date and make the second date one for the memories . show her you think she is special but don`t over do it . if she likes you you will know by the end of your second date . the first date with anyone is full of fear and caution from both sides .
call her ... this is why women shake their heads and wonder what the hell happened...





all goes well ...then we get a guy who doesn't know if he should call.. then we think he didn't like us





so just call.. ask her to go for a ride or to the beach or something.... but for heavens sake call her
Fercrhingoutloud.... BE A MAN. ENOUGH of the whiney ';oooohh.. what did she mean? Does she like me???'; crap!





Wait 48 hours from the last time yo saw her and ask her out again.
just organise another night out ^^, i dont think by shell definately be in touch she meant the next day or so. just arrange another night out, sounds like its going well for you so far :), good luck mate for now and in the future
well, i think she must've had fun and liked being with you if she said that but maybe she's waiting to see if you contact her, it's not like you've been bugging her yet by calling every day so maybe just text her to say what' up? or just tell her you hope she's having a good week. good luck
ok no worries.





one- she does really like you but the problem is, is that everyone has this idea that you cant call someone without sounding too eagar. just wait a little longer if she doesnt call you in about 4 days you call her. Also maybe shes really busy. her attention isnt always on her relationship. maybe something happened with her family, friends, or work you nvr know





good luck ^-^
ask her out for this weekend.........if she says ';no';.......cut off all contact and move on.......she is not interested





do not do anything creepy
Well, since you are new to the dating scene I am assuming you are either divorced or fresh out of a relationship. Do you really want to just jump into another relationship so soon? Why are you engulfed by one girl, when there are so many out there. Have fun and just wait and see what happens with this girl. Don't be so interested. Keep yourself busy hunting other women.
i think you must take it as the girl is interested in you .if she was not then she might have not even said those words











CALL HER!!!!
She said Definetly, Wait a little while like a week or even 2, If she hasn't called, that would be a good time to get in touch with her to see what's going on.

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