Some advice on lesbian etiquette: had sex with my new girlfriend, but it's really hairy ';down there'; Advice!?

So, I feel so cruel asking, but what - if anything - should I do about this?


It's really, really hairy down there and I don't want her to do anything extreme like shave/wax, but a trim is (in my humble opinion) much needed.


We've been dating a few months and I don't want to ask her to change anything about her person because that's not acceptable or polite-- besides, I think I might be falling for her in a big way!


It's like being stuck between a rock and a hard place; I like her, but the hair is such a turn-off.


Please help.Some advice on lesbian etiquette: had sex with my new girlfriend, but it's really hairy ';down there'; Advice!?
offer to shave her, make it part of a sexy routine.Some advice on lesbian etiquette: had sex with my new girlfriend, but it's really hairy ';down there'; Advice!?
So you don't want to ask her to change anything about her person cause it is not polite but at the same time you're unconfortable with that part of herself you don't want to ask her to change so it sounds to me like a one way relationship, you're giving her pleasure and you're unconfortable doing so, that's not fair for you.





Forget about etiquette and tell her exactly how you feel.
Talk to her about it, making it clear that this isn't about her being unattractive or about you trying to change her, but just about your own preferences...I offered to trim mine with my girl and happen to think it has major sexy-potential. The thing is to approach the subject delicately, but don't be afraid to say how you feel.
Maybe one day bring it up lightly in conversation, like,


';Hey, a trim is a nice thing.'; But make sure to tell her you're not asking her to change herself in anyway, it's all up to her. But tell her you'd think it'd be really sexy or something if she shaved. Don't be rude about it, just be really playful and sweet.


Hope I helped!
just ask her about it. before you two decide to have sex again. say, hey honey, have you thought about trimming? I think it would be much better for us if you did. more pleasure for you! and see what she says. I'm sure she won't take it the wrong way. It's not your fault, and honesty (in the kind way) is the best etiquette.
If you feel like you really like her, then be honest with her. It's better than simply being awkward around her and she'll think you have some kind of serious problem with her, and it'll cause friction between the two of you.
Be very gentle and just talk to her as a good friend. She'll respect you for it. Better you say something ,than to be continually turned off by it.
Politely begin to talk to her and slip in the question about it. Ask her if she could trim it a bit. That shouldn't offend her.
Just tell her it would be appreciated if she did a little grooming down there. it really isnt that big of deal.
u can tell her and if she loves u ; she won't be offended. but bringit up like.. hey what wouldu do if i said... but im only kidding unless u wanted tio
tell her to shave.
put your hands together like you are praying, you know, palms together, fingers and thumbs pointing up. now open your hands some, starting at the outer edge. keep your thumbs and first fingers touching, open the rest.





place your hands, held thusly, over your g/f's um, private area, and use your thumbs to ';open things up';.





if you place your hands and use your thumbs properly, you should be able to get at the good stuff, without getting a lot of hair in your face.





: ) : )





not sure about suggesting a trim, don't know how sensitive your g/f is. but you could try trimming yours in front of her, and doing the who's next? thing...offer to do it for her, tell her you can ah, make her feel a lot better that way...