Advice for fitting in with new people!?

Hi everyone, please help!





Okay, when I was younger , I did youth cheerleading and I made so many friends. But when I reached 7th grade I had to quit since the program stopped there and thats where u had to join the middle school squad. I couldn't because I currently went to a private school at the time and I stayed there until grade 8. I lost in touch with all my friends.





Now I'm going back to that same district for high school (and I'm the only one in my old class who is so all my friends would be going to different schools) and I figured I should pick up cheering in the summer beforehand so I would get to know some people. And I was so excited that I knew three people!





But....





They changed. I figured this. I decided to hang around these two girls that I knew since they were the only ones in my grade but me, and in the begining they seemed kinda nice but I seemed like a third wheel now. They talked about things I didn't know since I didnt attend the middle school and now they seem to try to avoid me all together. Plus, the other cheerleaders are really different since they talk about stuff that could make me uncomfortable ( sex, pervy guys, tattoos,) . its even to the point sometimes that i dread going to cheering cuz i can't stand being shy and silent when I'm usually so outgoing and loud!





Please Please HELP! I don't want to get into fights with a girl who is a ***** towards me because she friends with the rest of the squad ( and then they might hate me!) and I don't want to say something dumb that everyone will ignore me afterwards! I want to fit in, I really want to join in on the conversations, but I fear what the outcome might be.





I don't want the begining of high school to start out like this! Please help! How can I become comfortable with these girls like my private school friends? Advice for fitting in with new people!?
y would anyone want to fit in?


a lot of people want to fit in so they can be special


but really the only way to be truly special


is to be yourself


find new friends and don;t put ur self down


keep tryingAdvice for fitting in with new people!?
Just be your self


and after a while you will start to feel comfortable





Dont Worry so much


that will also help you fit in
Meet new other people, not just girls they're are some nice guys you can become besties with too..
The more you do it, the easier it will fit...unless you start dating with a black guy
try to find someone who is just like you and wants to do the same activities too